Providers: Quick Guide On What Not to Say to Previously Traumatized Clients

So much emotional trauma can be prevented even AFTER a woman or client has been physically traumatized during labor or birth. Ideally, you can prevent trauma during birth with compassionate and evidence-based care, but if a woman seeks your assistance and services after she has been traumatized by another provider’s harm or poor care, youContinue reading “Providers: Quick Guide On What Not to Say to Previously Traumatized Clients”

10 Questions To Ask Before You Hire a Doula

You’re pregnant, and you want to hire a doula. You know they can provide great support to pregnant moms during prenatal care, labor, birth, and even postpartum. But… perhaps you’ve heard of the great doula debate: some doulas will advocate for you while you’re in labor, and some, well, not so much. That might beContinue reading “10 Questions To Ask Before You Hire a Doula”

Women as Parts: Reproductive Rights Include Labor and Birth

We have been blamed and gaslit for so long, that we have to ask permission for people not to touch us when we don’t want to be touched.

Your C-section Was Not Your Fault

In reality, if your OB wants to c-section you, they will. No amount of preparation can combat the power differential.

If All That Matters is a Healthy Baby, You’re Saying Moms Don’t Matter

Dismissing trauma is re-traumatizing. With c-sections in particular, people seem overly eager to smooth over the wound.