Providers: Quick Guide On What Not to Say to Previously Traumatized Clients

So much emotional trauma can be prevented even AFTER a woman or client has been physically traumatized during labor or birth. Ideally, you can prevent trauma during birth with compassionate and evidence-based care, but if a woman seeks your assistance and services after she has been traumatized by another provider’s harm or poor care, youContinue reading “Providers: Quick Guide On What Not to Say to Previously Traumatized Clients”

10 Questions To Ask Before You Hire a Doula

You’re pregnant, and you want to hire a doula. You know they can provide great support to pregnant moms during prenatal care, labor, birth, and even postpartum. But… perhaps you’ve heard of the great doula debate: some doulas will advocate for you while you’re in labor, and some, well, not so much. That might beContinue reading “10 Questions To Ask Before You Hire a Doula”

Your C-section Was Not Your Fault

In reality, if your OB wants to c-section you, they will. No amount of preparation can combat the power differential.

If All That Matters is a Healthy Baby, You’re Saying Moms Don’t Matter

Dismissing trauma is re-traumatizing. With c-sections in particular, people seem overly eager to smooth over the wound.