When Providers Fear Birth

Behind many instances of women abused in childbirth is their provider’s fear of naturally unfolding birth, and their fear of being unnecessary. Abuse is about control. Simply, it’s boundary violation. Unnecessary c-sections – risky, life-changing surgery on a woman’s womb – are a huge boundary violation. But the way providers go about them, calling themContinue reading “When Providers Fear Birth”

10 Questions To Ask Before You Hire a Doula

You’re pregnant, and you want to hire a doula. You know they can provide great support to pregnant moms during prenatal care, labor, birth, and even postpartum. But… perhaps you’ve heard of the great doula debate: some doulas will advocate for you while you’re in labor, and some, well, not so much. That might beContinue reading “10 Questions To Ask Before You Hire a Doula”

Your C-section Was Not Your Fault

In reality, if your OB wants to c-section you, they will. No amount of preparation can combat the power differential.

If All That Matters is a Healthy Baby, You’re Saying Moms Don’t Matter

Dismissing trauma is re-traumatizing. With c-sections in particular, people seem overly eager to smooth over the wound.