Parenting and working during Covid is hard. It’s going to take more than a schedule and crafts.
It’s strange how no breeze ever reminded me of my c-section.
We have been blamed and gaslit for so long, that we have to ask permission for people not to touch us when we don’t want to be touched.
Every birth is once-in-a-lifetime.
In reality, if your OB wants to c-section you, they will. No amount of preparation can combat the power differential.
Dismissing trauma is re-traumatizing. With c-sections in particular, people seem overly eager to smooth over the wound.